1. The law (VAWA), the courts and police in domestic situations only help women and assume that men are always the perpetrators.
2. The government is funding the propaganda that women are victims and men are perpetrators, as well as false accusations against men and prosecutions (persecution) of innocent men.
3. In no time is there an investigation, an interrogation or diagnosis to determine who the real victim is and who the abuser is. The woman gets a shelter, pro-bono legal help to get her a protective order and to accuse (falsely in many cases) the man, and if she is an immigrant also legal help to file a VAWA self-petition for a Green-Card.
4. The man is removed from his home, gets arrested, accused (falsely), prosecuted, jailed and as a consequence he loses his job, becomes unemployable and his life is totally ruined.
All the above happens without any legal due process, without investigation, interrogation, questioning or verification. I can’t imagine anything more destructive to society than the Government funding false accusations and incrimination of innocent citizens!
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Laws (VAWA etc.) have been made based on pure lies. Laws are being abused and manipulated to hurt innocent men.
Women and men are abusive at an equal rate. More women initiate physical abuse than men. Many women lie and commit perjuries and false allegations of rape or domestic violence against their husband or boyfriends. Laws are biased to punish innocent men, while women are never prosecuted for their false allegations and perjuries.
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1. VAWA is illegal
2. VAWA is unconstitutional
3. VAWA is in violation of human rights
4. VAWA is destructive for families
5. VAWA puts government funds and other (dangerous) resources in the hands of private (non-profit) organizations staffed with very sick individuals.
6. VAWA does not address the issue it was meant to address, i.e. to reduce domestic violence, it does not offer a solution, it does not resolve or improve anything and it only aggravates the problem (e.g. after visiting a shelter and accusing her husband, the woman must hide for the rest of her life).
7. VAWA causes innocent citizen to lose respect for the federal government and the legal system.
The amazing thing is that because so many profit from the current arrangement (the innocent American spouse of the foreign immigrant is not on that list) it is so hard for people to admit the destructive nature of VAWA.
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There is a law in this country (The Violence Against Women Act - VAWA) that provides motives and incentives for an immigrant woman (man) to prostitute herself (himself), lie, deceive, abuse etc. an American citizen in order to deceive him (her) into marrying her (him), and then that same law provides motives and incentives for her (him) to falsely accuse the innocent American citizen of DV, rape and abuse.
The VAWA immigration loop-hole:
The formula is simple: Pretend you're in love with an American citizen, get them to marry you, then, a few months later start making unsupported accusations of abuse. The accusations will stick, even if completely unsupported by facts. In no time they're on the path to permanent residency and with plenty of help from US taxpayers. As you can see from the many stories in this forum, the innocent US spouse often pays a heavy price in terms of psychological distress, legal bills, damage to reputation, and in many cases even a criminal record.
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These immigrant women plan on doing whatever it takes, including lying, deceiving and prostituting herself in order to get an American citizen to sign a marriage.
They act, pretend to love him, they lie and say that they want to be his wife, they abuse his time and manipulate his emotions.
They instigate violence, they provoke, they destroy his home and reputation.
They lie to the police, they make false police reports, they try to get the innocent American citizen arrested in an attempt to fabricate evidence for a VAWA self-petition.
They contact a VAWA shelter and they lie in order for the VAWA shelter to help them fabricate more evidence for the VAWA self-petition.
They lie on a petition for a Temporary Protective Order and they sign a false TPO petition.
They lie to the TPO office at the court-house in order for them to help them get the TPO.
They go in front of the judge, they swear to say the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth and then they commit perjury and falsely accuse the very same person who helped them out of love and compassion.
They commit perjury in the TPO hearing when their "husband" is present.
They abuse the American support system by pretending to be domestic violence victims.
They break in to and burglarize the house of the very same person who helped them out of love and compassion.
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The radical misandristic feminists formulated a law that creates an incentive for immigrant women to prostitute themselves, to lie, deceive and do whatever it takes so that an American citizen would agree to marry them.
They formulated a law that creates an incentive for women to falsely accuse their "husbands".
They instruct women on how to falsely accuse their "husbands".
They help and instruct women on how to fabricate evidence for a VAWA self-petition.
They instruct women on how to abuse the American support system.
What these women do is so wrong, appalling and nauseating. When I say "these women" I mean each and every woman who is involved in these organizations, in formulating and supporting VAWA, in instructing women on how to make these false accusations and on how to manipulate and abuse an innocent American citizen, the police, the courts, the American support system and the American immigration system, and of course the women who deliberately plan on prostituting themselves and deceiving an American citizen in order to deceitfully make him sign the marriage so that they can falsely accuse him and file a VAWA self-petition.
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Why is what these women do so wrong, appalling and nauseating? When I say "these women" I mean each and every woman who is involved in these organizations, in formulating and supporting VAWA, in instructing women on how to make these false accusations and on how to manipulate and abuse an innocent American citizen, the police, the courts, the American support system and the American immigration system, and of course the women who deliberately plan on prostituting themselves and deceiving an American citizen in order to deceitfully make him sign the marriage so that they can falsely accuse him and file a VAWA self-petition.
There is a distinct difference between wrong and right, and just because something is not punishable by law (the false accusations of domestic violence with the intention of fabricating evidence for a VAWA self-petition and abuse the American support system) does not make it right. Specifically, making false accusations of domestic violence in order to fabricate evidence for a VAWA self-petition is one of the most despicable acts a human being can do.
...So to clarify:
To want to help an immigrant woman who is in difficulties is right
To offer an immigrant woman my house when she has no other place to stay is right
To help an immigrant woman with food, transport, money, medical issues, surgeries... is right
To agree to marry an immigrant woman after living together with her for 3 whole years is right
To plan on doing whatever it takes, including lying, deceiving and prostituting herself in order to get an American citizen to sign a marriage is wrong
To act, pretend to love him, to lie and say that she wants to be his wife, to abuse his time and manipulate his emotions is wrong
To instigate violence, to provoke, to destroy his home and reputation is wrong
To lie to the police, to make false police reports, to try to get the innocent American citizen arrested in an attempt to fabricate evidence for a VAWA self-petition is wrong
To contact a VAWA shelter and to lie in order for the VAWA shelter to help her fabricate more evidence for the VAWA self-petition it wrong
To lie on a petition for a Temporary Protective Order and to sign a false TPO petition is wrong.
To lie to the TPO office at the court-house in order for them to help her get the TPO is wrong
To go in front of the judge, to swear to say the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth and then to commit perjury and falsely accuse the very same person who helped her out of love and compassion is wrong
To commit perjury in the TPO hearing when her "husband" is present is wrong.
To abuse the American support system by pretending to be a domestic violence victim is wrong
To break in to and burglarize the house of the very same person who helped her out of love and compassion is wrong
To formulate a law that creates an incentive for immigrant women to prostitute themselves, to lie, deceive and do whatever it takes so that an American citizen would agree to marry them is wrong
To formulate a law that creates an incentive for women to falsely accuse their "husbands" is wrong
To instruct women on how to falsely accuse their "husbands" is wrong
To help and instruct women on how to fabricate evidence for a VAWA self-petition is wrong
To instruct women on how to abuse the American support system is wrong
... I can go on and on...
I don't think I could have been any clearer with the lists above.
Have you noticed how long the "wrongs" list is?
Martha, the Mexican immigrant women that I was helping out of my good heart and naivety - did all that.
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If only we could enlighten the people of the illegitimacy and unconstitutionality of VAWA, then its fall will be inevitable!!!
